This isn't about someone "[taking] things personally" -- this is about organized groups making existing platforms unusable for their targets.
Who is targeted by that and why? Who organizes that - I mean, why would thousands of people suddenly have reason to hate you?
Criado Perez started a petition to ask Bank of England to consider including a woman on the notes, and to remember to include women in future re-designs.
That's not much.
For that she was subjected to months long campaigns across all her social media accounts, extending to her AFK addresses, with severe threats of sexual violence.
One man was sending 50 messages an hour over 12 hours across multiple accounts.
It's disappointing that some people are defending those who make death threats. It's common over a keyboard, but AFK a death threat is serious business.
https://www.judiciary.gov.uk/wp-content/uploads/JCO/Document...
> Here there were a series of communications (not just a single one as referred to in the guideline) where extreme language was used and substantial fear was caused.
> Indeed it is hard to imagine more extreme threats (death, rape, and worse [Sorley]) and rape [Nimmo]. The harm is, and (despite what is said on your behalf) must have been intended to be, very high.
> The fact that they were anonymous heightened the fear. The victims had no way of knowing how dangerous the people making the threats were, whether they had just come out of prison, or how to recognise and avoid them if they came across them in public.
And about blocking:
> The messages were posted on a number of different sites, and continued after being blocked and or warned
As I said in response to your other post, this is something you report to the police. And I bet she did.
And about blocking:
> The messages were posted on a number of different sites, and continued after being blocked and or warned*
Exactly. This isn't trolling. Your social network can do nothing for you. You accidentally pissed off many people, now you are in trouble, you go to the police for protection, prosecute those who are serious and, unfortunately, ignore the rest because little can be done about thousands of people hating you personally for their insecurities.In that case, it's not really "organized" by anyone in particular.
For example, in your analogy, they're not being manhandled out of the venue. Someone at the venue is taking their picture and following them home, distributing that information, then random people are showing up at their house for the next eighteen months or more. Then people are showing up at their family's house with threats, and their boss's house demanding that they be fired.
Is this the type of "shit [flying]" that you think people should be prepared to expect when they post things online?
(Btw yes, that sort of reactionary persecution can happen and does indeed happen in all sorts of places. It's part and parcel of meaningful political activism anywhere in the world.)
Why should the consequences be so completely out of proportion to what was originally said? "In public" covers more situations than it used to, and the size of your audience isn't always intuitive.
> Can I walk around Harlem with a racist sign without expecting to be roughed up at some point?
Probably not. Will you be roughed up by thousands, be followed home, and be stalked and harassed for years? Probably not.
The fact that "in public" situations might have expanded (and sometimes replaced more private ones) is a problem that can (and should) be fixed with education. NBD.
Just because some people seem unable to comprehend the (massive) scale of internet space, it doesn't mean that we can magically make it a paradise where real-world behaviour honed in thousands of years simply does not happen. Internet space is a new all-encompassing dimension, the scale of which we've never seen. One should think carefully before acting in such an environment. It's not like interacting with press or peers in a given niche; it's like broadcasting on all channels in all countries at all hours. The chances of getting reactions you might not like are higher than with any other media or venue; but on the positive side, the chances of getting reactions you will like are also disproportionately higher than anywhere else. Continuously complaining that the glass is half empty will just provoke someone in smashing the glass to solve the problem -- because "you didn't like it much anyway, always complaining".
Because you're a woman on the internet, and said something.
Where was that said? I don't see this comment at all. "turning your devices off now and then" is akin to stepping out of a discussion when you start to take things personally. That doesn't mean you are banned from all conversations. It's healthy to take a break.