https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tndXr-oQxxA
I am optimistic the video has some relevance to this discussion.
> It is very disheartening when you take the time to write something thoughtful and you get no response at all.
Scott Alexander explored this topic in [0]. He also laments the fact that the posts he considers most valuable are read the least, while his most controversial ones are also the most popular. He even has a nice graph of it[1].
[0] - http://slatestarcodex.com/2014/12/17/the-toxoplasma-of-rage/
I mean that literally. These people have mental health issues and they want you to bend over backwards to accommodate them out of a sense of guilt or something. You shouldn't do it. You're just enabling the sickness. It's like those guys who keep running out for more Twinkies even after their partner has grown so large that they can't fit through the door of the bedroom and are trapped.
If someone is claiming that your use of regular English adverbs is triggering their PTSD then they are the ones with the problem, not you.
Those that ban people out of forums believe they are following same principle.
Edit: in case you missed it, this was sarcastic.