I lost my Grandmother in November and though she was never diagnosed with Alzheimer's, she did experience a long, sad cognitive decline. Seeing someone who was once so feisty not quite remember to change her Brita water filter was very difficult on my entire family.

Needless to say, I understand what you mean by your grandfather's passing being a relief to many. Good on you for having the courage to write that - it is a very common thing that far too many people are afraid to express.

I am sorry for your loss.