I have been rip roaring drunk, once or twice. It wasn't any fun and then I was sick afterwards.
I have hiked up mountains, in spite of a fear of heights. I did it sober and took appropriate precautions.
I am not suggesting you not have a life. If you want to drink, you can. You just need to have a designated driver or call a cab. If you want sex, you can have that. Just not with random ass strangers whose histories are total unknowns.
I enjoy my life. And I have very few regrets. I think "fun" that leads to regrets = you are doing it wrong.
But I was like that before I paid accident claims. Paying them just made me more confident that I am right.
Edit: I am genuinely curious what fun you think I am missing out on, though perhaps that is not clear. I really wonder what you think I am not doing that somehow makes my life less fun. Because I sincerely do not see it.
I imagine if you and I had a good looooong talk, our positions would not appear so far apart. However, this is not the place for that.
Take care.
If you really want low health bills:
Do all that boring stuff you constantly read about, like brush, floss, eat right, exercise, and only drink in moderation. Do not ever get rip roaring drunk. Especially do not drive or engage in other dangerous activities while drunk or high. Don't sleep around casually. Don't ride a motor cycle. If you want to go hiking in the mountains, take the appropriate precautions and do not drink or do drugs.
A lot of claims will not be covered anyway if you were drinking, taking drugs or engaging in risky behavior (parachuting, mountain climbing). And keep in mind that insurance only protects against financial loss, and only to a limited degree. If you permanently maim yourself doing stupid crap, you will not only be stuck with high medical bills and reduced odds of making a good income thereafter, you are also permanently maimed, duh. Living with chronic pain and other issues of that ilk still sucks majorly, even if you win the lottery and are set for life financially.
/boring old fogey