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Offer HN: I will work for free in SF/NYC/Remote this coming week

I’m rebuilding my life and trying to shake things up by working with new people and products. I’m available next week, monday thru friday to work on whatever projects you need help with.- I’m not a developer, I’m a marketing product manager.- Have 7+ years experience marketing b2b, b2c, some b2d- Touched pretty much everything in marketing land. Some have called me a growth hacker or full stack...

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Thank you for all of the constructive comments and different perspectives. I saw a few emails in my inbox too. Thank you.

As a single founder, it's the constant rejections that have me down. Failure to raise money to prove product market-fit [1]. Failure to come through in the clutch. Failure to convince investors. Failure to get the 'Yes' people to actually give you the cheques they said they would commit. Failure to "find a way". Failure at home. Failure at simple tasks like cooking an egg omelette for breakfast. Failure everywhere.

It feels like everything is compounding. I can't close anything to save my life. Literally. Confidence lost, swagger extinct. I try to shake off the negative thoughts and 'push through' as every successful person claims.. but somehow, someone pulls another rug out from under me. When it rains, it fucking pours. It could be worse, but it feels like i'm standing in a nimbus cloud that wont let up.

[1] - Don't need to raise to prove product market fit. But haven't pulled a salary in 8 months. Needed to keep the lights on at home. Avoided taking on contract work as that would take away from the startup, so kept pushing thru. "I'll just raise, I'll find a way.." said every startup founder.

assuming this applies to developers and doesn't work for marketing/product manager types
Yeah, unfortunately i've neglected most of my friendships b/c of the startup.

GF breakup isn't a result of startup failure, but more around our long term goals - children.

Appreciate your perspective, thanks

thanks for that link

Ask HN: Looking for advice – Failed startup, long term relationship at same time

Spent the last 12 months on a startup that's basically failed and over the last 2 months fallen into a dark and lonely place. I'm typically an upbeat and positive person, but this failure has taken a bit of a toll. All of the family and friends money is gone. I feel guilty. I'm in tons of debt and have constant waves of disbelief at how I actually got into this spot. Especially as it's all...

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