shrugthug

> sometimes a woman just being nice to a man is enough for him to see an "opening" and ask her out

Being nice to people in the workplace is part of being a professional, especially for jobs that may rely on tips.

What do you mean by this? I’ve been using Afrin to deal with nasal congestion when I get a cold for 10+ years now.

Do people continue to use the stuff once they have recovered or something?

WPF will always have a warm place in my heart. It was the perfect skill to have as an undergrad looking for an internship because so many dev teams have annoying problems that can be solved with a simple software tool. I just specialized in fixing these types of problems throughout my college years with WPF and was able to build a strong resume before graduation.

I’m a Swift developer now. Learning Swift UI definitely brings back a lot of those memories. WPF was ahead of the curve for declarative interface programming.

Your copy/paste is blocked by iTunes on iOS? I've never heard of such a thing.

I agree that yard work is phenomenal for mood, but it is sort of captured in the article's list. I see yard work as a combination of light exercise, time spent in nature, and meditation. In your case, it's a personal hobby too!

As an aside to your last thought, there's a local teacher in my town that offers to paint home interiors in the summer time. He expects customers to do all the prep work and acquire the paint, but he will show up with brushes, rollers, etc. He does charge a fee, but it's much lower than any professional. When I asked why he does it, he simply answered that he loves painting and finds it relaxing, so he decided to do it on the side to help locals out. Maybe you could do something similar for yards in the neighborhood.

Wow, this was a joy to read - thank you for sharing. I’m trying to make a concerted effort this year to read 20 books, which has led to me reading 4 Vonnegut pieces for the first time and am currently on my 5th. I was never assigned Vonnegut readings in school, but I have never felt more connected with an author while reading their work. Mother Night has been my favorite thus far, but I’m saving Slaughterhouse Five as the finale for my 20th book.

As stated in the article, there is something unique about how Vonnegut can capture vast ideas and distill them into his character’s expository. For example, here is my favorite quote from Cat’s Cradle:

> Do you know the story about father on the day they first tested a bomb out in Alamogordo? After the thing went off, after it was a sure thing that America could wipe out a city with just one bomb, a scientist turned to Father and said ‘Science has now known sin.’ And do you know what Father said? He said ‘What is sin?’

I'm actively looking for it right now and don't see anything. MacOS user.

Good luck to you! I feel all of the sentiments that you mentioned in your comment. Here are some tips for you that have really helped me:

- Turn off auto-complete on your desktop browser. The "cmd+t > news.y" or "cmt+t > r" is a real catalyst for mindless browsing sites like Hacker News and Reddit.

- Uninstall apps like Reddit, Facebook, or Instagram on your phone. If you really want to access them, then use the web experience through the mobile browser. It's enough to get the job done, but not good enough to be addicting (no auto-play videos, notifications, and the UX is slightly degraded).

- Turn off all non-pertinent notifications on your phone, especially things like news, email, and social media. The only daily apps which have I notifications enabled for me are Messages, a sports app, and daily habit reminders.

- If I feel like I'm using a social media site too much on a laptop, then I change the hosts file to re-direct to localhost. Bam, access revoked for a while. I've found that this works better than browser extensions. With extensions, I used to just right-click > disable, then go to my time-wasting website. With the hosts file method, I need to figure out the path to the hosts file (I never remember it), open it in a text editor, type in my changes, then save the file with sudo permissions. I thought about scripting it, but I think the manual process is more effective at preventing me from constantly enabling/disabling access. There's more intention behind the action.

- Pay for a newspaper subscription. It's so refreshing to consume quality journalism vs trendy click-bait articles. My recommendation would be read one national outlet (NY Times, Wall Street Journal) and your local newspaper. Instead of browsing Reddit/HN in the morning, open up your newspaper app.

For anybody interested in diving deeper into this subject, I would recommend reading The Shallows: What the Internet Is Doing to Our Brains. It was written in 2011, but is still very applicable today. Brain plasticity is a real concept and our constant connection to the Internet affects us.

https://www.amazon.com/Shallows-What-Internet-Doing-Brains/d...

Can you describe what this experience is like for the attendees? Are all of the attendees transported into all of these environments with full control of their character given constraints like being underwater, flying through the air, etc? I've played video games my entire life, but not Fortnite, so I find this absolutely fascinating as a future medium.

I found his answer fascinating to the question on what employees can do to improve the current negative perception of the company. He didn't list any concrete actions the company is making or make suggestions on what the employees can do at work, but answered it by essentially telling them to talk up how much they like their job to friends/family:

"And I think it’s tough to break down these perceptions and build trust until you get to a place where people know that you have their best interests at heart. So that’s one thing that you all will be well-suited to do as ambassadors, if you choose to be, having spent time here, as I think you know the heart of this place at this point. And you don’t know every single technical project, but you have a sense of what we care about and what people here think about and what the conversations are on a day-to-day basis. And in the conversations that I have, even with some of our biggest critics, I just find that sitting down and talking to people and having them know that you care about the problems and acknowledge that there are issues and that you’re working through them ... I think it just makes a big difference."

The problem is that if somebody has a negative perception of your company already, this exact type of response sounds disingenuous.