Dilution is life; just accept it. No employee or founder stock will ever have an anti-dilution provision.
If I'm a founder and I own 100% then give up half the company to investors, that 50% I give up better improve my overall outcome by at least 2x. Usually that's reflected in the overall valuation.
The chance of failure as a startup is significantly higher than its success. Plus, not everyone can achieve favorable offers that adhere to PG's equation. This is what real life is like, so you have to take into account unfavorable offers having to be accepted to possibly keep the lights on. Additionally, I threw up a quick scenario on http://www.tejusparikh.com/projects/equity_calculator/index....
I used a similar offer as mine, using .1% with rounds that had 1 million @ 1 million pre-money valuation, 5 million @ 15 million, 30 million @ 100 million and finally a sale of 200 million. The difference between 10k salary over 4 years in this scenario comes out to be a net gain of ~13k for an individual at the startup.
In my particular case if I switch this to a .17% offer and take a 10k salary cut, I am actually losing roughly 1k running through a scenario like that without factoring in the interest on 40k.
Also to everyone else if a founder wants to pay you a lot with equity, you have to wonder how confident he or she is in long term value. If they really are going to be worth so much, why aren't they clutching those shares more tightly and throwing cash at you instead?
If you are getting founders shares as a founding member of the team, that is one particular calculus that I alluded to but do not address.
If you are a "founding engineer" but not really getting founding shares, but the typical fraction to a couple of percent that is one thing.
If you are a non-founding C-Level title that is another scenario to discuss.
If you are an early engineer, that is basically the same as "founding engineer" above.
If you are getting non-founding equity as an early employee, you have to be aware of of dilution after each round. In nearly every case, an early employee post Series-A likely will be getting pay more and more equity than an early non-founding employee.
These days I look at startups as an opportunity to have a significant impact, build something interesting, but what am I giving up for the particular company? Can I gain the same benefits through other channels?
I recall a YC event where companies were pitching looking for talent. At least the Justin.TV guy was honest and said "we work our asses off", the startup that pitched "we work together, we play together, and we hang out with our customers at 9pm trouble shooting" -- great if you just moved to the area and don't have other outlets.
I've had some grate discussions with a few YC companies recruiting, some were wrong fit, some wrong match, some wrong time. In general, positive.
But the original thread is right...for a lot of the talent some companies want, compensation needs to match the talent level desired and equity/option, that crap shoot needs revamping.