Re:Best way to handle interviewer asking me out on a date af...
by pyrocat on Tuesday March 10, 2015 @01:31PM
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So making sexual advances in a professional setting is A-OK, as long as you only do it once per person?
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Re:Best way to handle interviewer asking me out on a date af...
by jarin on Tuesday March 10, 2015 @01:37PM
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Of course not. If the way you ask people out on dates involves overt sexual advances, that's definitely not an appropriate way to do it in the workplace.
Re:Best way to handle interviewer asking me out on a date af...
by zak_mc_kracken on Tuesday March 10, 2015 @01:44PM
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It's not sexual advances.
It's not in a professional setting.
Not saying that what he did is OK (it's not) but let's keep our facts straight.
Re:Best way to handle interviewer asking me out on a date af...
by pyrocat on Tuesday March 10, 2015 @01:52PM
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It's making an advance for the eventual goal of sex. How is that not a sexual advance? How is an email chain between interviewee and interviewer, discussing your interview results, not a professional setting?
Re:Best way to handle interviewer asking me out on a date af...
by ddoolin on Tuesday March 10, 2015 @02:04PM
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People go to GREAT lengths for the "eventual goal of sex" all the time without it being labeled a sexual advance, including striking up what may seem like friendly conversation even though you may never have the slightest idea that their end game was actually to screw you (among many other things). Arguably the majority of anything that people do is for the eventual goal of sex.
The e-mail "later that evening" was not discussing the interview results. It was a later email, presumably on his own.
Re:Best way to handle interviewer asking me out on a date af...
by marrs on Tuesday March 17, 2015 @12:37PM
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People go to GREAT lengths for the "eventual goal of sex"
Like get married
Re:Best way to handle interviewer asking me out on a date af...
by ddoolin on Tuesday March 10, 2015 @01:41PM
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Sexual advances? Did we all miss something?
Re:Best way to handle interviewer asking me out on a date af...
by beenpoor on Tuesday March 10, 2015 @02:01PM
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@pyrocat - You are making assumptions here that there was any quid pro quo involved. She was already rejected for the job. And then she was asked on a date. What was unethical and unprofessional was that he did it while being in a position of an interviewer.