http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/indore/Woman-sentenc...
If you search online, you'd find that there are many, many cases where an Indian girl elopes/lives with a man on free will, has consensual sex but after a few days, months, or even years files a rape case for various obvious reasons, surprisingly often when forced by parents.
You wouldn't 'like' to believe, but Pune police once said 74% of rape cases reported to them were consentual sex later turned rape. In fact Mumbai police says the main reason of the low conviction rate is false rape cases.
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/mumbai/Rape-convicti...
https://www.facebook.com/notes/deepika-narayan-bhardwaj/fals...
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ranchi/Lured-by-comp...
And a lot, lot more, just help yourselves with some Googling.
Post some examples of all these men's lives that have been ruined. Let's see whether these examples are, actually, worse than having been raped.