If there's one thing I think I could change about HN, it would be that we'd be easier on people who don't know things. Many times I'll read an article about the new version of PolyDoopWerks, and be told that it's the Uber-of-OOD-builders, and have no idea what's going on.
I usually just chalk it up to the difficulty in conveying emotion through strictly text. In the case where it is obviously not so, it's easy enough to ignore the person.
Basically, there's always going to be one or two of that guy in any conversation. I'm just happy that they're seemingly kept to a minimum on HN.
The length of time that it has existed is irrelevant--it's simply not commonly used yet. It's advanced usage, not basic.
While we value the knowledge you have to share with us, there are words you can choose to convey that knowledge that won't leave you coming off so brashly.
1. "Gmail has a wildcard for the + sign as it doesn't recognize it nor any characters that follow it." This wrong. It is well documented and called aliasing within Google. There is even a support page for it: https://support.google.com/mail/answer/12096?hl=en
2. Even that is documented: https://support.google.com/mail/answer/8158?hl=en
3. Even that is documented: https://support.google.com/mail/answer/159001?hl=en There are also a lot of ccTLDs that Google has for Gmail. Also those will work.