Amazon, which arguably has the same userbase, has successfully managed to change their interface over the years by gradually adding functionality.
Craigslist has only bullied others who make a better experience for users.
I should add, I think craigslist is one of the few sites out there that can get away with not updating their UI, so it's not so much that I disagree with several of your points, as it is, I disagree with your points in this specific case. :)
From my perspective, it's just Craiglist has done a magnificent job of evaluating their user-base.
Each of Facebooks major UI/functionality changes over the years has come with a heap of resistance from users. Not many though if given the choice now would want to undo the past 5 years or more of changes.