Amazon, which arguably has the same userbase, has successfully managed to change their interface over the years by gradually adding functionality.
Craigslist has only bullied others who make a better experience for users.
I should add, I think craigslist is one of the few sites out there that can get away with not updating their UI, so it's not so much that I disagree with several of your points, as it is, I disagree with your points in this specific case. :)
From my perspective, it's just Craiglist has done a magnificent job of evaluating their user-base.
Each of Facebooks major UI/functionality changes over the years has come with a heap of resistance from users. Not many though if given the choice now would want to undo the past 5 years or more of changes.
That's some serious survivor bias with Craigslist.
There have been a slew of useful services that have sprung up over the years (e.g. Padmapper) involving Craigslist data, only to have Craiglist send cease and desists.
If anything, Craigslist has stymied the progression of internet classifieds by not changing with the internet.