I found chicken to be the hardest meat to learn to cook: underdo it and you have salmonella, overdo it and it's cardboard. A well-cooked chicken is a delight, but it's a pretty narrow range. I found beef and fish to be much less scary meats as a novice since undercooking them is less of a risk. You can't undercook salmon, you can just end up with surprise sushi.
Likewise, I love making rouxs, but it took a number of tries before I had an intuition of the cook time/temp before and after adding the fat.
> - how to properly season something (how do you know how much salt and pepper to put on)
It's hard to have precise rules for that because every piece of food is different. Chickens aren't made in a factory (yet), so each bird will be a bit bigger or smaller. You kind of just have to learn it by taste and practice.
> - knife handling and care
I find youtube videos are really great for technique. Just search for "how to chop/prepare <ingredient>". I can cut a bunch of fruits, vegetables, and animals now with confidence.
Taking care of knives is harder. Video doesn't do a good job of showing tactile details like how much force to use on a honing rod.
> - classic flavour combinations
What I do whenever I'm in the mood for something is look up a bunch of recipes for it. If you compare them all, you can kind of get a feel for the ur-recipe that underlies them. Look at a few of those and you'll quickly get a feel for what things go together.
> - what you should always have in your kitchen (stock, garlic, chilli, etc.)
This depends a lot on what cuisines you favor. I think the absolute basics are salt, pepper, oil, butter, flour, and a few aliums (garlic, onion, green onion, etc.). If you have those, you can take damn near any vegetable, throw it in a skillet, and sauté up something tasty.
I'm always surprised by how far "add to pan on medium heat with butter, salt, pepper, and garlic" gets you.
"All cooking comes down not to recipes but rather to techniques. In Ruhlman’s Twenty, cook, writer, and food authority Michael Ruhlman distills all of cooking into 20 fundamental techniques, illustrated with 100 recipes, and hundreds of instructive photos"
http://www.amazon.com/Ruhlmans-Twenty-Techniques-Recipes-Man...
You'll probably love the books by Michael Ruhlman, if that's your desire:
1. The Elements of Cooking: Translating the Chef's Craft for Every Kitchen
2. Ratio: The Simple Codes Behind the Craft of Everyday Cooking
3. Ruhlman's Twenty: 20 Techniques 100 Recipes A Cook's Manifesto
It's linked to Modernist Cuisine, which is also linked to Nathan Myhrvold, who isn't popular here (for good reasons), but it's really a good resource for cooks -- comprehensive and pretty reliable. I haven't really looked into their basic stuff but it's always getting new content so even if they don't have what you are looking for now they might in the near future.
No programming tutorial is going to start with turning the computer on, how to use a web browser...it's the same thing that's implied here.
If I were introducing a complete newb to cooking, the last thing I would do is have them do a whole chicken with gravy, etc.
I'd have them cook something very simple. Potatoes, chicken breast, maybe some eggs. There's a lot of things that can go wrong and a lot to learn with each of those.
My best resource is foodwishes.blogspot.com. His videos focus completely on watching the ingredient, never himself, and I feel like he does a pretty good job of always explaining why we are adding in a spice or choosing a particular cooking method, or when you can feel free to improvise with your own preferred flavors. And there's also a good variety of different dishes, so its not just one type of cooking. I have been following recipes from foodwishes for about a year and I feel I've learned a lot (for an amateur) about how to cook.
It's like with the very recipe here - it's supposed to be for novice cooks, or those that never cook at home, to encourage them into home cooking, but at one point the recipe says:
"When the chicken has cooked through, take it out of the pan and pour off all but a couple of tablespoons of the fat in the pan, and make a quick gravy."
Novice cook thinks:
- how do I know when the chicken has cooked through?
- which bit is the fat?
- how do I make a "quick gravy"?
Instead, they should have created a "beginner's spatchcocked chicken" where you learn all of the principles of just that one thing, maybe you also learn how to make mash potato out of a packet or oven fries. Then "level 2" would go on to the gravy. And so on...
It's frustrating, as someone who is interested in cooking and is trying to learn, that there are a million and one recipes out there, but very few things that teach first principles. For example:
- how to properly season something (how do you know how much salt and pepper to put on)
- knife handling and care
- classic flavour combinations
- preperation of all meats, veg, fruits
- what you should always have in your kitchen (stock, garlic, chilli, etc.)
This is to name just a few. These million and one recipes just end up with you buying a bunch of herbs and spices you use once, then taking ages over preparing and washing up after; and some of them are basically the same with minor variations.