This obviously depends on your priorities, but being able to walk to the grocery store is a nice experience. I don't have a garden right now, but the public greenery I have access to are usually nicer-kept and I can do 80% of the things I would do in my yard anyways (picnics and the like).
The utility of density is very dependent on lifestyle, obviously, but if you haven't tried spending some time in a really dense area, I'd recommend it. You might find that you won't miss the things you thought you would.
London, for instance, is pretty sprawling, but many of the commuter towns or villages are actually very pleasant, desirable places to live (they can also be extremely expensive - though not so bad, of course, as central London, which is prohibitively expensive for anyone who isn't an oil sheikh).