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Re:Smartphones Are Used To Stalk, Control Domestic Abuse Vic... by 6d0debc071 on Tuesday September 16, 2014 @05:37AM (#8323690)
Isn't this what the police are for? If she just up and left, they didn't get a divorce and he should have certain rights to contact with his kids. Even if they got a divorce he'd probably still have certain rights established when custody was worked out.
Re:Smartphones Are Used To Stalk, Control Domestic Abuse Vic... by zo1 on Tuesday September 16, 2014 @07:29AM (#8323946)
You would think that, hey. But I've been recently reading up about the subject, and it seems that father's rights when it comes to children and their custody is wildly skewed in favor of the mother. Look online and you'll find countless stories about perfectly reasonable fathers not getting custody, while they claim the mother is bad (Crazy,addict,something).
Re:Smartphones Are Used To Stalk, Control Domestic Abuse Vic... by at-fates-hands on Tuesday September 16, 2014 @10:43AM (#8324699)
While this may have been true 10-15 years ago (I speak from experience and have been through this horrible system) things are starting to turn around.

For instance, 10 years ago when the court determined support, it only looked at what the Father's income was. In some state's, it's a percentage of up to 40% of your income if you got a judge that didn't like you. This means if you're 22 and working at Pizza Hut making $8/hour and the judge says for child support you have to have 40% of your wages garnished to pay support would put you well under the poverty line. This is regardless of whether your girlfriend had a cushy corporate gig making $60K a year with full benefits.

Nowadays, there's been a big push for father's rights and father's rights attorneys are becoming a lot more common. The courts are starting to change course on a lot of previous frameworks. For instance, just on the income issue alone, most courts now look at both parents income when deciding child support. What if your girlfriend isn't working? Too bad, the court now takes into account if you have a college degree and basically assigns you a "potential income" based on previous work history and educational background to come to an estimated income.

It's a lot fairer, but there were some really long, painful years being an unwed father and having to pay support.

Re:Smartphones Are Used To Stalk, Control Domestic Abuse Vic... by zorpner on Tuesday September 16, 2014 @11:07AM (#8324859)
I've been recently reading up about the subject ... Look online and you'll find countless stories...

Your cognitive biases are being exploited by people with an agenda.

Re:Smartphones Are Used To Stalk, Control Domestic Abuse Vic... by slowmotiony on Tuesday September 16, 2014 @05:43AM (#8323708)
Yup, when somebody takes away your kids be sure to just call the cops and wait. Surely this will solve the whole thing right up.
Re:Smartphones Are Used To Stalk, Control Domestic Abuse Vic... by 6d0debc071 on Tuesday September 16, 2014 @06:19AM (#8323788)
Stalking and harassment, on the other hand, will surely be greatly in his favour if he ever has to go to court to get custody or visitation rights. Or if she decides to make a complaint about him.