Game designers can answer the question.
http://www.gamasutra.com/view/feature/129948/the_chemistry_o...
http://www.gamasutra.com/view/feature/131802/glory_and_shame...
Off the top of my head.
http://www.gamasutra.com/view/feature/129948/the_chemistry_o...
http://www.gamasutra.com/view/feature/131802/glory_and_shame...
Off the top of my head.
And generally, in my experience, it comes from a place of arrogance on the part of the person doing the asking, because the next phase is talking down about how the "reasons" aren't valid.