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Re:I’m a software engineer at a startup, and I’m clueless ab... by dragonwriter on Wednesday May 14, 2014 @12:18AM (#7742171)
My recommendations:

1. Have interests outside of work.

2. Attend functions associated with those interests.

3. Meet people with whom you share interests.

4. Find some subset of those people whom you enjoy interacting with enough to want to do so outside of large group functions, and, in the process.

5. Follow up on #4 by spending time with some of those people in a smaller setting and getting to know them better.

Re:I’m a software engineer at a startup, and I’m clueless ab... by paulhauggis on Wednesday May 14, 2014 @01:05AM (#7742283)
If you concentrate on finding dates, you will come off desperate, and women will pick up on this. Dating coworkers is also a really bad idea.

Match.com is a great place to find women to date and get yourself out there.

I also joined a local meetup and ended up meeting my wife there. We were friends for a couple of years before dating.

Re:I’m a software engineer at a startup, and I’m clueless ab... by a3voices on Wednesday May 14, 2014 @12:05AM (#7742128)
Just send girls friendly messages. Pretend you're a job recruiter. It's actually very similar to that.
Re:I’m a software engineer at a startup, and I’m clueless ab... by ryanmeyaz on Wednesday May 14, 2014 @12:08AM (#7742144)
It's not for me actually, just thought it was an entertaining discussion on this site. Having said that, I think that's solid advice.
Re:I’m a software engineer at a startup, and I’m clueless ab... by kjs3 on Wednesday May 14, 2014 @12:07AM (#7742140)
I'm betting you have no idea how creepy that sounds.
Re:I’m a software engineer at a startup, and I’m clueless ab... by a3voices on Wednesday May 14, 2014 @12:10AM (#7742148)
Well that's a job that it's very similar to. If you're an unfriendly or creepy job recruiter, it's not going to work. The same goes with dating.
Re:I’m a software engineer at a startup, and I’m clueless ab... by good_guy on Wednesday May 14, 2014 @12:10AM (#7742150)
Re:I’m a software engineer at a startup, and I’m clueless ab... by ryanmeyaz on Wednesday May 14, 2014 @12:18AM (#7742173)
That's pretty much the reason I posted this. Hilarious.