> I'm definitely embarrassed for my generation that we perpetuated the lies, rather than encouraging choices, including self-employment or learning a trade.

This is mainly the result of over-protective, risk-averse parenting. To them, the best way for their child to achieve success was along this path. If their child tried to deviate from the path, they were grabbed by the scruff and forcefully put back on this path by their parents until it was ingrained in them as the only path.

To such parents, things like entrepreneurship are too risky. Their child might fail, and have nothing to show for it. It's better for their child to just go through college, get a job at a large corporation and possibly spend their life working their way up through middle-management until their seniority gains them a nice juicy salary along the way...

False dichotomy. You can go to college and start a business or learn a trade. And it gives you way more choices and options, not to mention enriching your life.

Assuming infinite time and resources, it's absolutely a false dichotomy.

However, especially from the standpoint of a graduating high school senior, it is very real.

I think there's an implied "first" (or "next" after secondary school) in all of this.

You know, I was told if I worked hard I would get a job. I did, and I did. Many people I know did the same, were always working during Uni, and had little problem getting a job. Many people I know don't work hard, slacked around at uni, and can't find a job.

I found this advice to be quite good, although I am sure it doesn't work for everyone. Then again, I never felt I was entitled to a job.

I was told if I worked hard I would get a job. I figured this was bullshit, so I slacked off. I never had problems finding a job. :-P

The plural of anecdote is not data. ;-)

Mind if i put that piece of gold into my '.fortunes' ?

Sure, go for it.