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Re:What Dreams May Come by not_paul_graham on Thursday March 13, 2014 @05:33AM (#7390791)
No one deserves this, especially not at 35. That is far too young. I've had more than a couple of people close to me pass away from cancer and other causes and it all seems very depressing that in some cases you can't really do anything at all.

Forgive me for asking but doesn't health insurance cover costs of cancer treatment even in the USA? I really don't want to sound like a narcissist and I'm not trying to judge in the least, but I'm curious why the OP wasn't more diligent about planning ahead in terms of health insurance given he made a decision to have/raise four children.

Do people really not take into account stuff like children's education, cost of living expenses per additional member of family, emergencies, black swan events? I know my parents decided to have only X number of kids because they knew that they wouldn't be able to provide well for more than X children. This was a conscious decision given that my father grew up with 7 siblings and my mom says she would have had more children if they would have been able to provide for them.

Also I'm genuinely curious whether $20,000 for a final resting place seems like a good amount to put on a list of priorities given all the other costs involved? Mortgage and transportation seem like good goals, but minus the cancer, if some one else decided to raise money from the internet to spend it on traveling, I'm not sure a lot of the comments would be so positive?

I'm really sorry for being so negative, but these are general questions that I have and they are in no way directed towards the OP. Cancer sucks. Period.

Re:What Dreams May Come by timr on Thursday March 13, 2014 @06:20AM (#7390929)
If you're insured in the US (sadly, this is still a fairly big "if"...) the costs of cancer treatment will be covered, but unlike most of the rest of the developed world there are still a lot of caveats: depending on the quality of your coverage, you could end up paying very little, or quite a bit of money. It's not a simple question, unfortunately.

That said, it sounds like he's not looking for money for treatment, but for things like paying down the mortgage and car before his income is lost. This is what life insurance is meant to cover, but again, there's a wide range of coverage options and many people don't think about how much to buy, especially when they're young.

If you've just bought a house and a car and had a kid you're probably in a lot of recent debt, with the assumption that you'll have a lifetime to pay it down. All it takes is one bad accident to turn that assumption upside down. Get life insurance, folks.

Re:What Dreams May Come by vishnugupta on Thursday March 13, 2014 @06:57AM (#7391038)
>If you've just bought a house and a car and had a kid you're probably in a lot of recent debt, with the assumption that you'll have a lifetime to pay it down

Out of self discipline I bought a life insurance at the same time my home loan was approved; the insurance amount being same as loan amount.

I have always wondered why don't Government have regulations in place that forces a borrower to purchase a life insurance. Or at least make the borrower opt into insurance by default with the option of opting out.

Left to themselves borrowers are not likely to think about insurance at the time of taking loans. I think by nature we underplay risks to our life because of which our loved ones end up suffering financially over and above emotionally.

Re:What Dreams May Come by yodsanklai on Thursday March 13, 2014 @08:17AM (#7391272)
> I have always wondered why don't Government have regulations in place that forces a borrower to purchase a life insurance

It's the old "nanny state" debate... In France, life insurances are mandatory when you get a mortgage. However, one still has to be particularly careful with insurance policies. My mother died to a cancer, a few years after she contracted a loan. However, the insurance company refused to pay off the loan. The contract was nullified as she didn't mention a disease she had 15 years before (unrelated the the cancer that killed her).

Re:What Dreams May Come by morgante on Thursday March 13, 2014 @09:12AM (#7391517)
> I have always wondered why don't Government have regulations in place that forces a borrower to purchase a life insurance. Or at least make the borrower opt into insurance by default with the option of opting out.

Because that's literally an unfair subsidy for insurance companies off the backs of homeowners. Insurance isn't a scam, but it is trading some reward to decrease risks. Probabilistically, you're better off saving the insurance money. I'm not saying that's the best choice for everyone, but it should be a choice.

Personally, as a single adult I'd never consider life insurance——nobody would be financially ruined if I died, so I'm much better off rolling all excess money into the stock market.

Re:What Dreams May Come by maxerickson on Thursday March 13, 2014 @07:55AM (#7391204)
What good would it do a single person?

Life insurance is to protect the people that rely on your income, not pay off your debts (I don't think this is a deep insight, I just think it is the sensible way to talk about it).

If you have children and only insured the value of your house, you probably need to buy more (but of course you might have discussed a simplified version of your situation or whatever).

Re:What Dreams May Come by DigitalJack on Thursday March 13, 2014 @10:50AM (#7392130)
My rule of thumb is insure for 10x your income. That makes it feasible for interest on the payout to replace your income.
Re:What Dreams May Come by gnoway on Thursday March 13, 2014 @09:56AM (#7391771)
I'm single with no dependents. I have enough money to cover my mortgage. Why should I be required to purchase life insurance?
Re:What Dreams May Come by vishnugupta on Thursday March 13, 2014 @02:22PM (#7393698)
That's a fair point as others have also pointed out. It's that I couldn't even imagine such a scenario. The society I live in, India, you will very rarely come across such a person, i.e., a single person with no dependents owning a house on mortgage. Once you start earning here there's almost someone financially dependent on you :). Could be your parents, spouse, children at various points in time.
Re:What Dreams May Come by lafar6502 on Thursday March 13, 2014 @09:23AM (#7391584)
It certainly makes you confident that insurance company will take care of everything when you die. But are you really sure? Did you check the fine print? What if your death is 'because of age' or 'because riding a bicycle is a dangerous activity'?
Re:What Dreams May Come by vishnugupta on Thursday March 13, 2014 @02:32PM (#7393798)
Life insurance business in India is very tightly regulated. In fact till very recently there was just one player, LIC (Life Insurance Corporation of India), which is essentially backed by the state. And LIC, being the oldest player in India, is profitable and has the highest claim settlement ratio, about 98%. Even though I haven't really checked the complete fine print I'm more or less certain, looking at the settlement ratio, that they wouldn't include such clauses.

That's the reason I'm fairly confident the insurance company will take care of everything.

Re:What Dreams May Come by lafar6502 on Thursday March 13, 2014 @04:34PM (#7394798)
Well, i'm relying on maths, not on government regulations. All the data is there, you can calculate the expected payout value for current mortality data and compare it with your yearly insurance cost. I don't know how much you pay but my calculations showed that insurance companies must seriously reduce the payout amount and/or exclude a majority of 'payable' illnesses or death causes, or they would lose money on every life insurance sold. That's why i don't believe in life insurances and prefer other solutions.
Re:What Dreams May Come by caiusdurling on Thursday March 13, 2014 @07:37AM (#7391152)
From what I've heard from friends/family that have mortgages, here in the UK the mortgage company stipulates that you have to get life insurance in place to cover the remaining loan amount before they approve your mortgage.
Re:What Dreams May Come by ealexhudson on Thursday March 13, 2014 @01:00PM (#7393065)
That's not at all true. Banks will be very happy to sell you life insurance, for sure, and may make it sound important - but the only insurance requirement is on the building itself, and even then the cost of rebuilding it, not the value of it.
Re:What Dreams May Come by antirez on Thursday March 13, 2014 @09:00AM (#7391456)
It is mandatory in Italy. If you die the debt is automatically payed.
Re:What Dreams May Come by bluedino on Thursday March 13, 2014 @08:16AM (#7391267)
>> Do people really not take into account stuff like children's education, cost of living expenses per additional member of family, emergencies, black swan events?

If you have a life insurance policy, and Aflac, you'll get a ton of money from having cancer. Aflac will pay cash for every hospital visit, every procedure, transportation (not pay FOR it, your health insurance will do that, but give you cash on top of that) and then the life insurance policy will cash out when you pass away.

Your family will miss you but at least they won't have to worry about paying for stuff.

Re:What Dreams May Come by matiasb on Thursday March 13, 2014 @08:08AM (#7391238)
My stepfather died from stomach cancer last year, the public health system here in Paraguay covered all the treatment, some of the drugs cost more than 15 or 20 times the monthly minimum wage.