I'm a bit skeptical of the results of that paper without the seeing the source code and in what contexts they are performing the comparison. One can always find situations where one scheme is faster than the other but I'm not totally sure if micro benchmarks are representative of the real world. In long-lived servers, ref-counting can be preferable because it avoids random pauses. Maybe it's a latency vs throughput performance dichotomy. But yeah, thanks for posting that.
Reference counting doubles the number of memory access - you have to update the reference and the counter every time. That is a big performance hit. Reference counting may randomly halt your code, too, because you never know when you hit zero and the resource gets freed.
And you don't know how many resources will be freed when you drop the last pointer to that giant tree structure.
Of course, you could queue up and lazily delete the resources, but then you're back to nondeterministic behavior.
No, it's not, not unless you use a lot of cleverness. "We find that an existing modern implementation of reference counting has an average 30% overhead compared to tracing…" (They did perform a lot of optimizations to get it up to speed with tracing garbage collection... however, these are far beyond what shared_ptr does.)
http://users.cecs.anu.edu.au/~steveb/downloads/pdf/rc-ismm-2...