I made 65,000 per year for four years. What do you think I should have made, money-wise?
At my current gig, same thing. Billions of dollars at stake, and I single-handedly design, build, deploy (one-click -- the power of scripting) and maintain systems used by over 1000 people, from executives to line workers. What is my true worth to the org? Do you think they would pay be $900,000 a year? Even at that rate, they would still make money off my work.
Start your own business and keep all the profits you earn.
This leads to why small businesses are hard: the owner has to do everything themselves, and at many things, they are bad.
At my current company, I give the car to the free valet in the garage, grab a cup of tea, walk to my desk and sit down and work, without worrying about all the infrastructure stuff.
True, but more importantly, before all of that, they made something people want to pay for and acquired enough customers to pay for that shit, and for lots of salaries too.
That's a good accomplishment, unless they're part of some government-supported cartel etc. There are plenty of those too.
The value to another company, whilst interesting to see if you're at the right place, doesn't necessarily help figure out your negotiation position if you'd prefer not to move.
Honest question: have you quantified your value to your current employer in dollar terms?
A lot of people I know say they're worth $x because that's what another company might pay them, but I can count on one hand the number of these people who actually did the math on how much revenue/profit their employer derived from their work.