[note: no personal hostility intended - I'm responding to the idea of "anti-systemd" in the abstract]
It's this kind of us-vs-the, faction-oriented attitude that concerns some of us. Nobody[1] is saying systemd should be expunged from the repositories or removed as an option.
The concern is that a newcomer (i.e. potentially buggy, but could prove itself over time) to the area of "init software" is demanding to be the only software allowed for that particular problem. Even more concerning is how that same newcomer as monopolistic tendencies, and has started tying/bundling together several neighboring software niches, demanding that the currently used and working solutions in those areas be abandoned as well, because of some made up requirement.
If you or anybody else wants to run systemd, you should. In reading these discussion on it, it even sounds like a great choice for some situations (the people setting up "tens of thousands" of mostly-identical systems seem to like it a lot). Some distros make it the default? Why not, variety is one of the great things about having multiple distros to choose from.
Insistence that OpenRC and such must make way for systemd is enough provoke a rather strong reaction. The deliberate incompatibilities to force adoption, on the other hand, are borderline fighting words.
This pattern - trying to suppress competing ideas while claiming the opposition is being unreasonable for suggesting some sort of compromise - is something I've had to fight in politics for a long time. It's expected any time atheism or gay marriage is brought up.
I never thought I would see that kind of "argument" used seriously[2] over UNIX...
1: "nobody", modulo the rare fanatic/ass that you find in any sufficiently large group of people. Even the linked article above - despite the presence of strong opinions - is more concerned with technical issues and how to solve the "init system problem" in general.
2: we have had our Holy Wars, but traditionally only leads to strange stuff like "evil-mode"
I use systemd because that's what my distro comes with. There are positives and negatives. On the whole though, I agree with much of the criticism, and I hope that a real alternative comes along which is more security and uptime friendly.
With sysv init, it is very easy to add new services that may not be supported out of the box. There are scripts like rc.local, etc, which can be edited to start anything. This means that setting up a new service that can be supported properly is a lot more work, especially if it is for development systems. While I haven't had systemd crash, I have had issues with stuff requiring manual start (i.e logging in as root and running the startup script for the app) when a simple rc.local-type approach would have been far simpler.
Another problem I have had is the issue of process accounting, where if the process starts up a daemon and exits, then systemd has trouble determining the status properly. This can cause issues for things like monitoring (which means basically I don't use systemd for monitoring whether services are running).
What this means, in essence, is that to make this work the way I would like I have had to reinvent part of the sysv init system inside of systemd and then handle things like process tracking the old fashioned way (pid files and shell scripts).
In short, in addition to the "I don't want my system to have to reboot and this is a bad architecture for that requirement" you have quite a bit of areas where there are leaky abstraction layers which don't really add any benefit to administration of the system.
At least that's how I read it in numerous articles on LWN and mailing lists, I haven't tried it on an actual system yet.
[1] http://lwn.net/Articles/584175/ (Subscriber only)
I don't think that the argument was that it was scary to upgrade or there were no benefits; the author was specifically stating that a couple of points inherent to the design of systemd make it something that he finds less stable. Systemd could still provide these benefits by shipping more than one binary for extra features, reducing the attack surface of the init system itself.
EDIT: BTW I use archlinux and therefore use systemd.
I've been using it for maybe 18 months, it was different and different is some times scary but I have had no problems at all. Migrated some legacy init scripts and it's a piece of cake. It's fast, it works, it does what it claims to do. I've been shipping unix software mostly on linux for 15 years and there are very real reasons systemd, launchd, smf, upstart and other "do more than nothing" init systems exist and companies making money selling them write them. All of them are much much more simple for the administrator to use too...