In Redis you can read or write ~100k operations a second. You can do set operations, add, rem, member, list .. way cool if you can stomach the memory use. Lazy sync to disk. Hard to think of anything that could beat it for collecting stats or totals etc for high volume data streams.
In CouchDB you can do M/R style indexed views, like word counts. You can access the DB directly from HTTP, no special drivers - the DB is implemented as a web server. You can authorise via OAuth (soon), secure via TLS and proxy through squid. You can access, and replicate, from the other side of the world.
Tokyo Cabinet is over 10 times faster than MySQL as a simple hashtable, like, say, a session store, which is the first place most sites start having trouble with their DB. Tiny, bare bones, drivers for all major languages, network accessible. A no-brainer for simple storage IMO.
And all of these are completely free, unlike the cripplingly expensive commercial alternatives you mentioned - especially important for startups.
So .. basically I completely disagree, there's a lot of good things about these alternative DBs. Don't discount them just because you heard a few dumb ill-informed comments on sites like this, most people involved in non-RDBMS DB implementations know exactly what they're doing.