There is no need for such talk. We can at least pretend to be grown-ups and have a discussion.

Violence is not the key difference.

Dying when a plance crashes into your home or dying from a rocket fired from a malfunctioning drone are just as violent and just as "meaningless" to the next of kin. However, in both cases we learn something and we progress.

I'm sorry, but the world does not work in the way that Disney has made you believe.