Re:Starting Up, One Year Later: The Downward Spiral
by Confusion on Sunday June 21, 2009 @05:33AM
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Sounds like he is describing my university years. I think the problem is simple: the most important thing in your life is something that can consume an unlimited amount of time. There's always more to do, to learn, to explore, so you never feel you've done enough. I think that is also the key to solving the problem: you have to set precise, reasonable, goals and disengage yourself from that 'most important thing' when you've reached the goals you set for the day, week, month. Otherwise, the maelstrom will take all your time.
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Re:Starting Up, One Year Later: The Downward Spiral
by tdavis on Sunday June 21, 2009 @06:06AM
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I tried exactly what you're saying, actually; I grabbed a task planner, put tasks for "Today" in it before I went to bed, then did them when I woke up. And I took a break when I was done. And spent the whole time telling myself, "you have earned this break." Which turns out to not be so very relaxing, actually.
The strategy worked well enough that I feel it could work properly, if only I could return to equilibrium long enough to enact it. In its current form, it feels like I'm lying to myself because the other voice telling me I'm not doing enough is louder.
And I used to be so... sane sounding.