The fact that it's being trotted out again as justification should worry you.
Those two differences have in fact changed the landscape. I can run a couple person startup that generates millions in ad revenue now, with exceptionally high margins. Plenty of Fish is the most famous example of this. Techmeme essentially worked like that, as another example. Hacker News could be like that, if PG wanted it to be.
Point being, it's now drastically easier to monetize traffic long term, compared to 1999 (when the ad market was tiny, backwards, poorly standardized, difficult to utilize, and not very developed for all industries / segments).
Go back to 1999 and build a website supporting a million concurrent users. How much hardware do you need? What are your fixed costs? What are your engineering costs? How do you even market your thing?
Now do the same today.
What's different?
To attract today's users, you still have to be better than your competitor's website. The fact you can easily build a website for millions doesn't mean it will actually see millions of visitors.
Treating The Beatles like General Motors is where the problem lies. Twitter, Facebook, Snap Chat and their ilk are more like the supergroups of yesteryear than the industrial giants that our investment infrastructure was designed to support.
Vanilla Ice might be a better example.
It may well be true that we could convert our current economic condition into a post-scarcity economy by shifting away from capitalism, but at the moment we're stuck in an overproduction/overaccumulation/debt crisis.
No one is saying it's worth nothing.
They are saying "X is not worth this huge valuation" which implies the person saying that thinks there is something "unfair" about the multi-billion dollar valuation.
But, this naysayer person has a proper "fair" valuation in mind based on their complete outsider knowledge. To them, it's actually worth nothing (no revenue == if someone buys it, they can't make money == it's worth nothing), but they'll concede a little since a lot of people use it.
Imagine when one person can create a platform 90% of humanity relies on. What is that one person worth? What if that product has no revenue because the owner can extract all value on-demand by extorting/blackmailing The Man at will based on collected personal information?