It's not a luxury. It's free and everyone can do it. It would be nice if more people started.

When people come up to me in the middle of dinner and tell me I should not be with my fiancee due to our respective skin colors, it is pretty difficult even for me not to think about it sometimes. And I think I have a fairly sheltered position in society relative to your average young black girl.

You can't not think about race if people discriminate against you based on it. That was the point. Some people are forced to think about their identity categories.