For clarity I just want to note here that Rust macros are structural (like Scheme) rather than textual (like C).
But the more abstract point is that macros allow you to provide abstractions that do look just like an identifier (or function call, etc...) and do act like identifiers in the context where they're used. And that this is a good thing, because that kind of syntactic flexibility is useful in defining domain-specific languages that make the expression of hard problems clearer.
Adding a bunch of "!" to those DSLs isn't helping anything.
Basically, we have a macro that was abused here. Your solutions it to make it harder to abuse macros, mine is to accept the occasional abuse (with a "don't do that" in most cases, those here it's a backwards-compatibility problem) in exchange for more clarity on the hard stuff.
I was just quibbling with the idea that putting a magic "!" on a macro somehow makes it a better design choice. I don't think it does, either as a macro or as a safety mechanism.
Metaprogramming is "dangerous" because the meta constructs don't (can't!) act like what they look liks. Metaprogramming is "great" because the meta constructs look like simple programming but have surprisingly deep behavior.
As I see it all you did was add a "!" to the confusion, honestly. People likely to get tripped up by e.g. the "address of macro" problem above are going to be no less confused by the extra syntax IMHO.