But the more abstract point is that macros allow you to provide abstractions that do look just like an identifier (or function call, etc...) and do act like identifiers in the context where they're used. And that this is a good thing, because that kind of syntactic flexibility is useful in defining domain-specific languages that make the expression of hard problems clearer.

Adding a bunch of "!" to those DSLs isn't helping anything.

Basically, we have a macro that was abused here. Your solutions it to make it harder to abuse macros, mine is to accept the occasional abuse (with a "don't do that" in most cases, those here it's a backwards-compatibility problem) in exchange for more clarity on the hard stuff.