How not to be alone

Re:How not to be alone by stfu on Saturday June 08, 2013 @08:35PM (#5846943)

I disagree. It depends a lot on your type of personality. But if you are an introvert you think a lot about weather to approach a (distressed) person or not. And ultimately are almost are never going to do that.

If you just listen to your "subconscious" and not making an intentional effort of being more open to people this will negatively impact social interactions.

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Re:How not to be alone by 6d0debc071 on Saturday June 08, 2013 @09:19PM (#5847079)

You won't do it. I'm not sure that's quite the same thing. I found that my social interactions improved greatly when I stopped going to the effort of making myself be open with people and started being vastly more selective in who was worth the time.

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Re:How not to be alone by anigbrowl on Sunday June 09, 2013 @12:43AM (#5847619)

I am an introvert, which is one reason I'm acutely conscious of when people would rather be left alone.

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Re:How not to be alone by corin_ on Sunday June 09, 2013 @10:06AM (#5848947)

But are your assumptions correct? Just because you recognise situations where you would want to be left alone, is it not possible that extroverts wouldn't want to be left alone in those same situations?

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Re:How not to be alone by Dewie on Sunday June 09, 2013 @09:00AM (#5848723)

There is a difference between being an introvert and being socially awkward/shy.

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