I may have missed the point of dropping an object, though. I thought the idea was to create a physical point we could anchor the coordinate system to, and in that way be able to measure acceleration.
If the force is external and doesn't apply pressure then you have to drop an object.
If the force affects the entire universe the same way then that's aether and can't be measured / doesn't exist. But that was not the kind of force I was using to disprove "you can't move".
What kind of force is external and doesn't apply pressure, and also doesn't affect the dropped object? There is no such force, and therefor no such test.
You can't. There is absolutely no test that can tell you this.
You can't "drop" anything - whatever force is accelerating you also accelerates the object, so letting go of it tells you nothing.
And as shardling said, a reference frame isn't a physical thing that is created and destroyed - it's simply the zero point for your system of measurement - but the measurement would work just fine if you started with any number, zero is just convenient.