Re:Being Really, Really, Ridiculously Good Looking
by jiggy2011 on Thursday April 25, 2013 @06:43PM
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Are you sure they attempted to sabotage you because they were threatened by your looks and not some other reason?
Re:Being Really, Really, Ridiculously Good Looking
by cosx on Thursday April 25, 2013 @07:14PM
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No guarantee's there, but I can say that it works both ways. Xenophobia and these sorts of biases exist and are normal parts of being a human being.
I would say, it's better to accept that these biases exist, so that you can take them into account when reasoning - rather than trying to delude yourself into thinking you are in entire control of all that is going on in your mind (and body).
Re:Being Really, Really, Ridiculously Good Looking
by jiggy2011 on Thursday April 25, 2013 @07:21PM
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I mean, what caused you to believe they were sabotaging you based on looks?
I'm sure there are all kinds of odd reasons why somebody might do that, but it seems like an odd one to assume unless there's a reason for it.
Re:Being Really, Really, Ridiculously Good Looking
by beachstartup on Thursday April 25, 2013 @07:37PM
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it's not because you're an asian, it's because you're good looking.
the same thing happens to good looking white guys and good looking women (around other women) too.
you've never heard the term 'prettyboy'? it's used all the time to put down good looking men.
You can also be targeted by other men (of a different race for example) that feel threatened by you - or women too, the bitter type, in all seriousness.
To make it easier for your probable world view: being a very good looking tall black man for example, won't necessarily have everyone open up to you with smiles on their faces (especially if you don't necessarily want to assimilate into their 'culture'/social structure).
Being a very good looking asian (yes they exist, haha) guy myself - I would say I have experienced many instances in my life where white men have attempted to sabotage me.
People like things that make them feel/seem more powerful, and hate things that tend to do the opposite.