If the only thing you could imagine someone meaning is something obviously idiotic, you probably aren't imagining hard enough.
I could imagine a lot of things. I'm just trying to point out that you can't just absolve individuals from being responsible for the outcomes of their decisions. And that's not the same thing as saying "The victim was dumb, they got what they had coming to them".
Bad judgement on one individual doesn't justify bad actions of another individual.
A woman might choose to wear clothes that make her look sexy. But that doesn't justify a guy raping her.
I agree that people act dumb. But that doesn't justify predatory behaviour.
No, the "take responsibility for the outcome of your own actions" school of thought. Or do you think one should be able to wander through life, doing and saying anything one pleases, completely oblivious to your environment, and not expect bad things to happen sometimes?