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Re:Why women should embrace a ‘good enough’ life by nissimk on Tuesday April 23, 2013 @12:58PM (#5596334)
It may make sense for some, and if your accounting of life only measures money/assets than it may universally make sense, but there are a lot of benefits to having kids earlier. I've met people in their early forties with kids who were fully grown and out of their house. They are able to live as a couple without small children while they are still young and healthy. Also, they can more easily contribute to their grandchildren's childcare because they will be younger and healthier. There's definitely something to be said for that. I had kids at 31 and 33 and I find it really hard and tiring to care for them now at 37. I can't even imagine what it would feel like if I was over 50.

Personally I think younger is better, but it's different for everyone.

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Re:Why women should embrace a ‘good enough’ life by notdonspaulding on Tuesday April 23, 2013 @01:19PM (#5596500)
My wife and I started having kids at a young age with exactly this in mind. We weren't trying to live it up in our twenties, and we figured we'd enjoy our time together just as much in our 40's and 50's as our kids left the house.

Having more energy because we're younger is also nice. ;-)

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