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Re:Sexism In Tech: We’re Not Making It Up by steveklabnik on Monday February 25, 2013 @01:26PM (#5280613)
It's pretty simple: if you're not sure, don't do it.
Re:Sexism In Tech: We’re Not Making It Up by coldtea on Monday February 25, 2013 @03:37PM (#5281610)
Really? That's quite a naive view.

Are people (men/women/gay) ever SURE about when to flirt with another person?

By this logic, half of the population would have never been born (which might have been a good thing, with respect to overpopulation and all, but that's a different argument).

Re:Sexism In Tech: We’re Not Making It Up by steveklabnik on Monday February 25, 2013 @04:01PM (#5281770)
What you're saying is, "I am willing to possibly sexually assault someone in order to get a date."

You're a bad person.

Re:Sexism In Tech: We’re Not Making It Up by coldtea on Tuesday February 26, 2013 @03:42AM (#5284632)
>What you're saying is, "I am willing to possibly sexually assault someone in order to get a date."

No. That's the strawman you made out of what I'm saying. Can you please respond to what I actually said and not put words in my mouth as you please?

What I'm saying is: some people can also consider completely casual flirting to be a "sexual assault". As in, when you're flirting you're never sure beforehand if the other part wants your flirt. And in many cases, it takes a little time to win them over (or fail). It's not like there's a standard protocol: "OK, you can flirt me now".

And yes, people DO fall in love in tech conferences, or meet possible partners, as they do in ANY other place, including offices and funerals. So they do have the right to approach someone else they like there.

>You're a bad person

And who are you to tell me that?

Apparently in your mind verbally assaulting someone you disagree with and telling them they are a "bad person" is perfectly OK?

That's your idea of making the world better by stoping sexism? Introducing hatr-ism?