I'm taking this example out specifically, because it illustrates my point quite nicely.

If there were a sizeable community of people who only wanted to use a computer for Photoshop, and tailoring the windowing system to them made it a significant usability improvement for those people, then it would be a completely imaginable situation that upon first opening your brand new Mac, it'd ask you whether you're one of those Photoshop people and want the special windowing system setup.

Well, ok, haha Apple and customizing anything for anyone, ever. But many other vendors might make such a choice.

The apparent stubborn refusal of many PaaS services, including Heroku and yours, to particularly tailor to a very common configuration of Rails sounds like a hole in the market, to me. As a customer, I don't care whether this is "incorrect" because Rails does not conform to some yet-to-be-defined standard or simply because the PaaS doesn't have their shit together. The customer experience is the same: I'm running a blog tutorial app, and the performance sucks.