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Re:Introducing Graph Search by shadowmint on Tuesday January 15, 2013 @08:03PM (#5064382)
You know, there's a difference between 'introverts' and 'extraverts'; those people who stand around and feel awkward if no one is saying anything?

You know? The ones who want to talk to you in elevators? Or just come and stand next your desk while you're trying to do work and talk? All socionormative, smile and handshake?

Maybe you should watch this: http://www.ted.com/talks/susan_cain_the_power_of_introverts....

Here's a thing: If I dont know you, and you want a conversation, catch my eye. If I smile, sure, lets chat.

If I look away, look at my phone, stare out the window.

dont talk to me

Your social obligation to engage is unwelcome

In all seriousness; you need to re-evaluate if you honestly believe "People love being bothered by strangers."

Some people may; many do not. You enjoy bothering strangers. There's a difference.

Re:Introducing Graph Search by prawks on Wednesday January 16, 2013 @09:56AM (#5067036)
There's no need to attack him because you assume that he's not empathetic to others or is incapable of reading body language.

I really hope this "introvert fad" slows down soon. There's no need to be so radical, there's a spectrum of personality types. It's not black and white. I identify as an introvert. Social situations exhaust me, so I enjoy them sparingly.

If someone makes a funny comment to me in the elevator, I'll laugh and it's okay. I don't rant to him about my being a recluse.

Re:Introducing Graph Search by rglullis on Wednesday January 16, 2013 @02:46AM (#5065868)
Thing is, introverts are vastly outnumbered in society. So while his statement is generalizing, it is a good approximation to Facebook's population.

So, for Facebook it doesn't matter. As they always do, first they create something that is seen as violating people's notion of privacy. Then they add some form of setting that allows the introverts and control-freaks like you and me that makes it enough for us to not abandon the site, but at the same time allows to still be users.

Also, there is something funny about how you mention not liking to be bothered by strangers in an Internet forum with 10^6 users, but I digress.

Re:Introducing Graph Search by thesz on Wednesday January 16, 2013 @05:23AM (#5066204)
http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2003/03/caring-f...

One fourth to a less than a half is not "vastly outnumbered".

PS Or even slightly more than a half: http://www.thoughtful-self-improvement.com/percentage-of-int...

Re:Introducing Graph Search by shadowmint on Wednesday January 16, 2013 @05:12AM (#5066173)
http://www.quietlyfabulous.com/2011/01/06/introverts-arent-a...

Here's the cliff notes: “But in 1998, researchers were finally able to do what Isabel Briggs Myers could not: an actual population study. The study was based on a national representative sample – 3,009 randomly selected individuals – which, through weighting of underrepresented groups, was made to approximate the distribution of the 1990 U.S. Census. The findings were clear: introverts and extroverts are equally represented in the population.” (emphasis in original)

Re:Introducing Graph Search by ibrahima on Wednesday January 16, 2013 @02:50AM (#5065875)
Honestly, I consider myself extremely introverted, and I do all those things to avoid talking to people, but I kind of wish I didn't. I actually like random people talking to me about random things.
Re:Introducing Graph Search by gizzlon on Wednesday January 16, 2013 @04:04AM (#5066035)
Maybe you're not really that introvert, only a little shy? (yes, I think there's a difference :)
Re:Introducing Graph Search by depr on Wednesday January 16, 2013 @06:22AM (#5066329)
I don't think being an introvert means you don't like talking to people.
Re:Introducing Graph Search by ibrahima on Thursday January 17, 2013 @12:58AM (#5071255)
I am definitely extremely shy (in person), but I think I'm also very introverted but wish I wasn't.
Re:Introducing Graph Search by seldo on Tuesday January 15, 2013 @09:00PM (#5064653)
I regret that I have but one upvote to give.