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Re:Too many men suffering in silence, national health report... by Sanzig on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:31PM (#50430541)
The vast majority of heterosexual men who are unsuccessful romantically has nothing to do with their "status." A bit of self-confidence and the ability to listen to and empathize with women is literally all it takes. Women don't want to date chuds, shocker.

Also, dating apps are pointless. Go volunteer for a community organization or join a pickleball league. Don't force it.

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Re:Too many men suffering in silence, national health report... by harimau777 on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:57PM (#50431016)
How are men supposed to develop that self confidence?
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Re:Too many men suffering in silence, national health report... by delecti on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:40PM (#50431755)
Exercise, self-improvement (reading, hobbies), socializing. Go do things with people. It requires effort, and can be intimidating.
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Re:Too many men suffering in silence, national health report... by opwieurposiu on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:42PM (#50431776)
Go take some social dance lessons like swing or salsa.
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Re:Too many men suffering in silence, national health report... by SubmarineClub on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:47PM (#50431871)
lol, how can you be this delusional
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Re:Too many men suffering in silence, national health report... by bluefirebrand on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:41PM (#50432649)
> Women don't want to date chuds, shocker.

An alarming number of my wife's female friends married chuds, or seem to only pursue chuds.

One of her friends is cheated on by almost every man she's dated. She also almost exclusively seems to date men who have been to prison

Obviously "not all women" but come on. Women date chuds all the time.

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