sure.

would you rather treat your AIs like people, or would you rather find yourself down the line treating a person like an AI, but without really noticing it? because you are what you practice

How about just practicing treating humans like humans and machines like machines then?

Do you also treat your microwave as a person? Otherwise you could risk treating other people as a microwave some day.

if my microwave was run by a voice assistant resembling people, I would

How about the option of neither treating AI like people nor treating people like AI? I think treating AI like AI and treating people like people is the best approach here.

it sounds good, but the problem is that AI is meant to resemble people, so it's a great way to end up treating people less like people in the end anyway, possibly without noticing it.