Re:Ask HN: Ethics behind getting offers to figure out your "...
by rolandal on Monday December 17, 2012 @06:08PM
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For companies that are trying to "recruit" you away from your current employer, they are already aware I would assume.
Also, it seems like it would be make sense to deny an offer/opportunity if it's less than what you're currently making and/or vesting value.
I do agree that the counter offer strategy is not always a guaranteed win - I was more curious about people using this as a way to find out their "market value" (what someone is willing to pay/offer you)
If you want more money you can talk to your manager but other then that, you just need to get another job. It sucks but that is reality.
The raise-by-counter-offer strategy rarely pays off. You may get your raise but only until they can find someone to replace you.