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Re:My husbands suicide shows theres something very wrong wit... by LoganDark on Monday July 20, 2026 @02:06PM (#48982537)
I mean, I don't agree with the assumption that he was simply irrational and chose this because he wasn't thinking straight. I would much rather believe that he had strong reasons for this and that there is something to be done about the circumstances that led to it. Suicide is more often than not a systemic failure and not simply an outlier to be ignored.

If you read the article and see all the shit that he went through before he died it should be obvious that he's not the one at fault for breaking under that pressure. Not everyone has the strength to brave such bullshit.

Re:My husbands suicide shows theres something very wrong wit... by ceejayoz on Monday July 20, 2026 @02:10PM (#48982580)
> I mean, I don't agree with the assumption that he was simply irrational and chose this because he wasn't thinking straight.

And I don't agree with the assertions that that's not a possibility.

Re:My husbands suicide shows theres something very wrong wit... by LoganDark on Monday July 20, 2026 @02:20PM (#48982760)
I don't consider it a possibility that state of mind would not have been a result of his mistreatment. You seem to recognize it can be brought about by situations, and I consider that reasoning enough. You don't have to perfectly calculate suicide as the only practical answer in order for your actions to be reasoned. Even primal reasoning can count.
Re:My husbands suicide shows theres something very wrong wit... by ceejayoz on Monday July 20, 2026 @02:28PM (#48982878)
> I don't consider it a possibility that state of mind would not have been a result of his mistreatment.

Why? There are very well treated people who still get suicidal.