Parent: your post takes a legitimate point and muddies it with an overly emotional tone.

> grown adult men

On the internet, nobody knows you are a dog. I won’t look for original threads, but in general assumptions about posters age and gender are just that - assumptions. If they were female posters, would you feel differently??

> Telling on themselves, perhaps?

Get rid of this sentence. By itself it will be the cause of disengagement and downvotes.

> this is a hill people will die on.

Getting an account banned in no way equates to death. Oh no, lost my karma!