No, you can't, C is lacking a lot that C++ brings to the table. C++ has abstraction capabilities with generic programming and, dare I say it, OO that C has no substitute for. C++ has compile-time computation facilities that C has no substitute for.
All those abstraction capabilities can be a big detriment to any project, because they always come with a cost, and runtime is far from the only concern.
Specifically in an embedded project, toolchain complications and memory use (both RAM and code) are potentially much bigger concerns than for Desktop applications, and your selection of programmers is more limited as well; might be much more feasible to lock your developers onto acceptable C coding standards than to make e.g. "template metaprogramming" a necessary prerequisite for your codebase and then having to teach your applicants electrical engineering.
Both object oriented programming and compile time computation is doable for a C codebase, just needs more boilerplate and maybe a code-generator step in your build, respectively. But that might well be an advantage, discouraging frivolous use of complexity that you don't actually need, and that introduces hidden costs (understanding, ease of change, compile time) elsewhere.
The extent of my experience has been being able to replace functions like convert_uint32_to_float and convert_uint32_to_int32 by using templates to something like convert_uint32<float>(input_value), and I didn't feel like I really got much value out of that.
My team has also been using CRTP for static polymorphism, but I also feel like I haven't gotten much more value out of having e.g. a Thread base class and a derived class from that that implements a task function versus just writing a task function and passing it xTaskCreate (FreeRTOS) or tx_thread_create (ThreadX).
Typed compile-time computation is nice, though, good point. constexpr and such versus untyped #define macros.
I still use modern languages on a regular basis, but when I drop back to more basic languages there are only a few ergonomics that I truly miss (eg. generics).
The substitute for this is that C is insanely easy to generate. Do your compile time computation in your build system.
OO is also pretty trivial in C -- the Linux kernel is a great example of a program in C this is very Object Oriented.
Generally, the more you deviate from your vendors "happy path", the more busy work/unexpected difficulties you will run into, and a solid grasp of how exactly architecture and toolchain work might become necessary (while staying on the "happy path" allows you to stay blissfully unaware).
I've definitely learned a lot, and I like the portability of CMake for cross-platform use (our team uses all 3 of Windows, Mac, and Linux). My experience sounds much like yours: there've been a lot of times where using the vendor's flavor of Eclipse-based IDE (STM32CubeIDE, Renesas e2studio, etc) would have saved us a lot of discovered work, or extra work adapting the "happy path" to CMake and/or C++.
Using C++ and/or CMake is fine when it's part of the happy path and for simpler things e.g. STM32CubeMX-generated CMake project + simple usage of HAL. For more complex things like including MCUboot or SBSFU, etc, it's forced me to really dig in. Or even just including FreeRTOS/ThreadX, we've created abstractions like a Thread class on top -- sometimes it's nice and convenient, others it feels like unnecessary complexity, but maybe I'm just not used to C++ yet.
One clear, simple example is needing to figure out CMake and Ninja install. In an Eclipse-based IDE, you install the platform and everything Just Works(tm). I eventually landed on using scoop to install CMake and Ninja, which was an easy solution and didn't require editing my PATH, etc, but that wasn't the first thing I tried.
Ninja is supposed to be faster for compiling very big software projects, but I have never seen an embedded software project that is well organized and which is not compiled in a few seconds on a powerful development computer with many cores, so I do not see the benefit of Ninja for such projects.
All Eclipse-based IDEs that I have ever seen are extremely slow for anything, both for editing and for building a project and they make the simplest project management operations extremely complicated. Even Visual Code Studio is much faster and more convenient than using Eclipse-based IDEs. Other solutions can be much faster.
While the example programs provided for STM32 MCUs are extremely useful for starting a project for them, I believe that using the methods of project building provided by the vendor results in a waste of time. I have always obtained better results and faster development by building a GNU toolchain (e.g. binutils,gcc,gdb, some libc) from scratch and by using universal GNU makefiles, which work for any CPU target and for any software project, with the customization of a few Make variables. I have written once a set of GNU Makefiles, according to its manual, around 1998, and I have never had to change them since then, regardless what platform I had as a target. For any new platform, there is just a small set of variables that must be changed by generating one per-platform included file, with things like the names of the compilers and other tools that must be invoked and their command-line options.
For new projects, there is one very small file that must be generated for each binary file that must be built, which must contain the type of the file (e.g. executable, static library, shared library) and a list with one or more directories where source files should be searched. No changes are needed when source files are created, deleted, moved or renamed, and dependencies are identified automatically. I am always astonished when I see how many totally unnecessary complications exist in the majority of the project building configurations that I have ever seen provided by the vendors or in most open-source projects.
The "canonical" way to just build what was changed with make is to let the compiler generate header dependencies during the build and to include those (=> if you change only 1 header, just the affected translation units get rebuilt). Works like a charm (and never messes up incremental builds by not rebuilding on a header-only change).
If you did not have proper incremental builds before, I would blame the makefile specifically and not make itself.
Another way to mess up with make is to not allow anything in parallel, either by missing flags (-j) or by having a rule that does everything sequentially.
Ninja does have less overhead than make, but your build time should be dominated by how long compiler and linker take; such a big difference between the two indicates to me that your old make setup was broken in some way.
The LL API is basically thin inline wrappers around register writes, so you still get the CubeMX-generated init code but without the HAL abstraction tax at runtime.
But if you want to do that from scratch with little experience, you are almost invariably gonna miss like 5 different clock/IRQ/peripheral enable flags, get some clock prescaler wrong, missconfigure a GPIO pin or two and then spend a bunch of time tracking things down with debugger, reference manual and scope...
C can't parameterize an optimal layout fixed-length bitset with zero overhead, nor can it pragmatically union error sets at scale.
Honestly, I can't think of a single job for which C++ is the best tool.
In practice: Is it worth wrapping all your vendor-provided hardware abstraction in classes that you write yourself? Designing something like that to be "complete" (i.e. allow full access to all hardware functionality like IRQ/DMA setup) and to still stay hardware-independent is often borderline impossible anyway, and any attempt is invariably going to make your codebase more difficult to understand.
An interesting perspective. Could turn it around as "everything you can do in C++ you can do in C with a lot less language complexity".
My personal experience with low-level embedded code is that C++ is rarely all that helpful, tends to bait you into abstractions that don't really help, brings additional linker/compiler/toolchain complexity and often needs significant extra work because you can't really leverage it without building C++ abstractions over provided C-apis/register definitions.
Would not generally recommend.