Re:America vs. Singapore: You Can't Save Your Way Out of Eco...
by scottyah on Thursday February 19, 2026 @03:14PM
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You do know you can have a wedding even if you're already on-paper married? The ceremony really has nothing to do with the legal act.
Re:America vs. Singapore: You Can't Save Your Way Out of Eco...
by raw_anon_1111 on Thursday February 19, 2026 @03:27PM
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So wouldn’t it go against everything that FIRE stood for to spend money on a wedding after you lost your job?
Re:America vs. Singapore: You Can't Save Your Way Out of Eco...
by scottyah on Thursday February 19, 2026 @05:19PM
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Nope, it's just mindful capital allocation. There are plenty of ways to spend money wisely on a wedding. It's just a big party, and maybe a traditional ceremony. It's whatever you want it to be.
Also, just so happen I did end up in the hospital three weeks later because something happened that affected my breathing for an entire year.
And how do you “go back to work” if the entire reason you need to go back to work is that you have a health condition?
If you haven’t checked, jobs aren’t that easy to come by quickly in 2026 in tech like they use to be. Sure I could find someone to give me a contract if not hire me full time - but we are still back to not having insurance .
The US messing up insurance on the open market is the concern and it being back like it was pre ACA. That only affects the unemployed under 65.
As far as being between jobs - usually you can get COBRA for a limited amount of time - not an option for FIRE.
Oh yeah, that brings up another point, I did pay for COBRA for two months back then. The contract I had paid more than enough to afford it. Then the acquiring company shut down their insurance plan and COBRA wasn’t even an option