Re:Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?
by embedding-shape on Thursday January 15, 2026 @04:08PM
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I'd say particularly if you're an atheist. I've always been atheist, but fascinated by churches and religions regardless, because no matter what you believe, it's hard to refuse the proof that the ideas themselves are powerful and helps people a lot of the times. Why is that? Best way to find out is to talk and engage with those who have these different ideas, probably where they are the most comfortable.
Doesn't mean you need to forget all the horrible impact it has had too, and how much better humanity would probably be without it, or even continue thinking about ideas how we could finally get rid of it once and for all, without violence.
Also, probably different in different parts of the world, but in many places churches are just purely architecturally/visually beautiful and historically interesting buildings. Some of them have really interesting acoustics too, and organs. Many interesting stuff at churches :)
Re:Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?
by staticman2 on Thursday January 15, 2026 @04:08PM
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It's not even just an atheist issue. You have to have spiritual beliefs that values the specific repetitive churche rituals so as not to be bored out of your mind.
Re:Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?
by tyg13 on Thursday January 15, 2026 @02:47PM
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Surprised to see this comment strike a nerve with the HN crowd. That was my first thought as well. Religious organizations? No thanks.
Re:Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?
by embedding-shape on Thursday January 15, 2026 @04:09PM
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If you agree with the entire comment, except just that line, do you upvote or not? I think maybe that's why :) If that line was the only thing in the comment, the reaction would probably have been different.
Re:Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?
by groundzeros2015 on Thursday January 15, 2026 @03:26PM
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Well that’s part of the problem. secularism didn’t make an alternative.
Re:Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?
by RiverCrochet on Thursday January 15, 2026 @02:54PM
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Start an atheist club.
Re:Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?
by onemoresoop on Thursday January 15, 2026 @04:23PM
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Or join some community.
Re:Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?
by immibis on Thursday January 15, 2026 @03:44PM
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Join a hackerspace I suppose. Technology is a religion anyway.
Re:Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?
by embedding-shape on Thursday January 15, 2026 @04:01PM
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I always said science is kind of like a religion in a way. Wonder if that's closer or further from some truth than "technology". Interesting perspective nonetheless.
Re:Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?
by bell-cot on Thursday January 15, 2026 @03:02PM
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if [ atheist ] then
's/joins a religious org/join a service org/'
Similar 'bible studies' => 'torah studies' or 'quran studies' if you're Jewish or Muslim. Just ask if you're unsure of the details.
Re:Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?
by huhkerrf on Thursday January 15, 2026 @05:07PM
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The great thing about the comment you're replying to is that it has a list of suggestions. So you've got two options: you can get angry that one of them doesn't cater to you, or you could skip that one and look at the others that do.
Re:Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?
by throwaway314155 on Thursday January 15, 2026 @10:07PM
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For what it’s worth, I wasn’t angry.
So no atheists then?