These are all fair points, I don't disagree with any of them but they're just symptoms of much broader problems - like political and cultural trends which men are supposed to be in charge of but are in fact oblivious about.

To put it a bit differently, it's not about men vs women it's about social forces and dynamics which are largely misunderstood. Call it a failure of humanities and social sciences, and that includes economics and political science - a topic which is best discussed elsewhere.