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Re:My six stages of learning to be a socially normal person by whstl on Tuesday November 18, 2025 @09:57AM (#45967015)
And there is nothing positive or productive about the kind of judgement I'm talking about.
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Re:My six stages of learning to be a socially normal person by lazide on Tuesday November 18, 2025 @10:04AM (#45967129)
What kind are you talking about?

Refusing to be an asshole to someone being an asshole just enables them being an asshole.

Refusing to judge if someone is being an asshole, ensures that someone being an asshole will see no consequences for being an asshole.

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Re:My six stages of learning to be a socially normal person by whstl on Tuesday November 18, 2025 @10:13AM (#45967269)
I'm criticizing being an asshole to people who are not naturally the way society expects and had to work their way through.

But to be fair I'm mostly criticizing useless HN post-hoc rationalization.

> Refusing to be an asshole to someone being an asshole just enables them being an asshole.

I have nothing to do with this.

> Refusing to judge if someone is being an asshole, ensures that someone being an asshole will see no consequences for being an asshole.

I also have nothing to do with this.

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Re:My six stages of learning to be a socially normal person by lazide on Tuesday November 18, 2025 @03:32PM (#45971644)
How is someone supposed to know that the person acting like an asshole is doing it because of some ‘good’ reason, or because they are just a jerk?
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