I’m old enough to remember the same trash arguments over video games, rap music, even (for some unknown reason) the Disney Channel. This is just another moral panic.
There's three outcomes here, sorted from worst to best
- Kid uses social media, which is bad for kid due to social media.
- Kid doesn't use social media and everyone else does, which is bad for kid due to ostracism
- No kids use social media, which is best for kid because they don't get ostracized.
What you're saying here is to just settle for the middle option which is not as bad as the worst option but is still bad.
- Kids continue to use social media despite the ban, with some using sketchy circumvention services or older friends to gain access, and with others driven to totally unsupervised social media in foreign countries and/or the dark web, with predictable results. The majority of kids rightly see the restrictions placed upon them as unreasonable and grow up with less respect for government and the law, broadly harming social trust as they enter adulthood.
If you want to argue for that point of view, do so. Put forward actual arguments. Your comment reads as “if you were smart like me, you’d know I’m right”. Which is unfalsifiable and unconvincing.
IMO it’s much better - for everyone - to ban this stuff at the community level. Then there’s no FOMO.