This is a bad faith argument: "What's the theory of harm here? If we continue educating women they may gain too much social mobility?"

If that's not your position, clarify what it is. You're complaining about efforts to encourage women to seek an education. What is the theory of harm, if not that women shouldn't be educated? Perhaps what I said was too snarky of inflammatory, but I genuinely don't understand what else it would be.