Social anxiety isn't about being liked

Re:Social anxiety isn't about being liked by turtledragonfly on Friday October 03, 2025 @12:34PM (#45464824)

This seems fairly culture-dependent, from my experience.

For instance, I've noticed a distinct difference in how sarcasm is received in the Northeast US vs the West Coast. What you described feels more Northeast-y to me (I'm sure it varies by other segments and sub-sub-cultures, too).

There's the saying: "If an Irish person calls you 'asshole,' it means they think you're a friend. If they call you 'friend' it means they think you're an asshole."

Not just for the Irish though, I don't think (:

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Re:Social anxiety isn't about being liked by cortesoft on Friday October 03, 2025 @12:39PM (#45464869)

Well, I have lived in California my whole life, and 90% of my friends are also native Californians, so i guess it isn't exclusively east coast.

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Re:Social anxiety isn't about being liked by trinsic2 on Friday October 03, 2025 @12:53PM (#45465011)

:) I also think this applies to Scotland and the UK. I love the irony that continent brings to the world.

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Re:Social anxiety isn't about being liked by bongodongobob on Friday October 03, 2025 @12:37PM (#45464852)

Ha that's funny. I'm from the Midwest and found my dry/sarcastic humor tended to confuse people on the West Coast. A lot of people tended to take me completely seriously when I was obviously joking.

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Re:Social anxiety isn't about being liked by jdonaldson on Friday October 03, 2025 @12:43PM (#45464912)

I always chalked that up to being around people that were new to the country and hadn't yet wrapped their head around the latest fashionable American cynicism. Generally takes a few decades to kick in, but when it does it's usually worth the wait (see Kumail Ali Nanjiani).

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